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The Gatherings

Come to one, come to all of them, and decide each time.

For women who would rather just turn up

Eight months is a big commitment. Some women want to meet the people first. Some have a year that will not allow for fixed dates, and some simply prefer to arrive when they want to and leave when they want to. The Gatherings exist for all of them.

Seven kinds of Gatherings

  • The Open Table

    Tuesday evenings, roughly monthly. Somebody hosts, everyone brings something, and we talk. Conversation is the entire agenda.

  • The Winter Book

    One book, chosen in early December, read over the break, discussed once in January. Reading half the book is just as legitimate for a perfectly good opinion.

  • Show and Tell

    With Tejaswini Apte-RahmBring whatever is actually on your bedside table. Ten minutes each; preparation optional.

  • Voice and Breath

    With Isabelle KernGuided breath, meditation, voice, and sound with a certified music therapist. Every voice welcome, no good voice required.

  • Forest Bathing

    With Corinna Siede, in WiesbadenA guided walk with a qualified Waldbademeisterin, with attention directed to one thing at a time.

  • Eating for the Middle

    With Anna SchmidtCook simple Indian dishes with an Ayurvedic chef, open the spice box, and talk about how digestion shifts in midlife. Come hungry.

  • Reflective Writing

    With Tejaswini Apte-RahmGuided prompts, and the page stays yours. Spelling, grammar and any ambition to be a writer can all be left at the door.

The Open Table dates

All Tuesday evenings.

  • Tue3 November 2026
  • Tue10 November 2026
  • Tue8 December 2026
  • Tue2 February 2027
  • Tue9 March 2027
  • Tue13 April 2027
  • Tue25 May 2027

January is given over to the Winter Book instead.

The other Gatherings have no fixed dates. We see who is interested, and fix a date once enough people have said yes.

Start times are confirmed ahead of each date. Dates and times may shift. Any change is confirmed well in advance.

All it takes is your phone number

  1. Leave your name and phone number here.
  2. We add you to our WhatsApp group, where every Gathering is announced.
  3. Sign up in the group for the ones you want. That is the whole process.

Join the WhatsApp group

We use your number to add you to the WhatsApp group and nothing else. Other members of the group can see your number, and you can leave the group whenever you like. More in our Privacy Notice.

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Most Gatherings are free. Some have a small fee, paid directly to the facilitator.

There is also the Circle: the same eight to ten women, every month, October to May. Several of the women at the Gatherings are in it, so the easiest way to find out what it is like is to ask one of them.